If it look like a duck quack like a duck act like a duck then quack quack bxtch your mans duckin!!

Ermmm guys analyse this with me please right..
If your man changes (we all know the changes I'm talking about), he hardly ever calls anymore, the attention is lacking, when you're together he seems distant, and he acts iffy that means hes needs are being met else where or hes "duckin"(cheating) right? Coz if it looks like a duck, act like a duck and sounds like a duck then don't fool yourself boo boo he's duckin.
Us girls need to start trusting our instincts more. Because more often than not deep down we're alllllwwayyss right
Oh no no no dont think just because he takes care of you buys your expensive weave and your infamous red bottoms (ma binnu) then that means he loves your raggedy ass... or that its ok for him to play the field "as long as he comes home to me every night" nah my girl open your eyeshadow infested eyes. In the words of Ciara herself "if that boy dont love you by now he will never ever love you". I mean what happened to that "independent woman" movement or self sufficiency?
*Naahh dont get it twisted now◆ the feeling when you come home to a pair of heels waiting for you on the bed and the cutest little black dress with a note saying "Whatever you have planned cancel it ,put this on and do what you do best im picking you up at 7 x" ◆ is out of this world!!! (Im not cray cray we all love the good things in life even me *chuckles*) HOWEVER!!!
Is there not more satisfaction in paving your own way through life? Lookoing at what you have and saying "yes,I did that all by myself"?
Are the females in our generation so insecure that they must rely on men and their gifts to define their own self worth??
I guess it can only be expected in a generation where celebrities, are snapped looking like something out of Vogue magazine 24/7. Us girls can only want to live up to that. However go do it for yourself don't wait upon ANY man to take care of you.
While some get their "own" others well take others own. But come on girls not to the extent of letting him walk all over you.... and treat you like "chips" as an old friend of mine would say.
Get yourself together what example are we setting the children we are yet to have?? Dont forget for a second we carry the next generation- (if you aint finna make no babies in the future then you simply wasting away...merrr just my opinion dont shoot me over it)- of young men, we dont want to raise them to take us back to an era where women were objectified and treated as disposable goods.
Bottom line is if your instinct tells you that he is duckin else where then likelihood is, he is. Its a sad reality.
Don't hold on because of the material goods he throws your way to keep you sweet. Because all you're doing is "settling". Believe me you'd much rather have someone who showers you with gifts because they love and adore you.
And on that note, live love laugh. Peace love and all that good stuff X.